środa, 15 stycznia 2014

Lessons from Lew Tołstoj

Six Life Lessons from Leo Tolstoy

--  Based on article by Roman Krznaric
It's 150 years since Lew Tołstoj began writing his epic War and Peace.
Most people think of Tolstoy as one of the 19th century's greatest novelists, they are not aware that he was also one of the most extreme social and political thinkers. During his life from 1828 to 1910, Tolstoy gradually rejected  his aristocratic background and enter a surprisingly unconventional worldview that shocked his family and friends. Tracing his personal transformation offers some surprising  lessons for how we should approach the art of living today.
Tolstoy was born into the Russian nobility. His family had an estate and owned hundreds of serfs. The early life of the young count was mindless, carefree and entertaining. He gambled away a fortune through a reckless addiction to cards. As he acknowledged in A Confession:
I killed men in war and challenged men to duels in order to kill them. I lost at cards, consumed the labor of the peasants, sentenced them to punishments, lived loosely, and deceived people. Lying, robbery, adultery of all kinds, drunkenness, violence, murder — there was no crime I did not commit, and in spite of that people praised my conduct and my contemporaries considered and consider me to be a comparatively moral man. So I lived for ten years.
So how did Tolstoy manage to wean himself off this wrongful and violence lifestyle? And how might his journey help us rethink our own philosophies of life?
Lesson 1: Keep an Open Mind
 Tolstoy had the ability and willingness to change his mind based on new experiences. He fought in the battle of Sebastopol during the Crimean War, a horrific experience that turned him from a soldier into a pacifist. In 1857 he witnessed a public execution by guillotine in Paris. He never forgot the view of detached heads falling into the box below. It convinced him that the state and its laws were  brutal, and served to protect the interests of the rich and powerful. He wrote to a friend, "The truth is that the State is a conspiracy designed not only to exploit, but above all to corrupt its citizens...Henceforth, I shall never serve any government anywhere." Tolstoy was on his way to becoming an anarchist. His criticisms of the tsarist regime in Russia became so loud that only his literary fame saved him from imprisonment. Tolstoy would be the first to encourage us to question the fundamental beliefs and dogmas we have been brought up with.
Lesson 2: Practice Empathy
Tolstoy was one of the great empathic adventurers of the 19th century, displaying an unusual desire to step into the shoes of people whose lives were vastly different from his own. Following the Emancipation of the Serfs in 1861 Tolstoy not only adopted traditional peasant dress, but worked alongside the laborers on his estate, ploughing the fields and repairing their homes with his own hands. For a blue-blooded count, such actions were quite remarkable.  Tolstoy enjoyed the company of peasants and he also founded an experimental school for peasant children and even taught there himself.  Tolstoy believed you could never understand the reality of their lives unless you had a taste of it yourself.
Tolstoy Ploughing
Tolstoy Ploughing (c.1889) by Ilya Repin.
Lesson 3: Make a Difference
 Tolstoy made a notable effort to take action to ease other people's suffering. His dedication to the peasantry was nowhere more evident than in his hunger relief work. After the crop failure of 1873, Tolstoy decided to stop writing Anna Karenina for a year to organize aid for the starving, remarking to a relative, "I cannot tear myself away from living creatures to bother about imaginary ones." His friends and family thought it crazy that one of the finest novelists in the world would put one of his works of genius on the backburner. But Tolstoy was tough and uncompromising. He did it again after the hunger in 1891, and with other members of his family spent the next two years raising money from around the world and working in soup kitchens. Can you imagine a bestselling author today setting aside their latest book to do humanitarian relief work for two years?
Lesson 4: Master the Art of Simple Living
One of Tolstoy's greatest gifts was his addiction to the question of the meaning of life. He never stoped  asking himself,  how he should live, and what was the point of all his money and fame. In the late 1870s, unable to find any answers, he had a mental breakdown and was on the verge of suicide. But after immersing himself in the German philosopher Schopenhauer, Buddhist texts, and the Bible, he adopted a revolutionary brand of Christianity which rejected all organized religion, including the Orthodox Church. He had grown up in, and turned toward a life of spiritual and material rigor. He gave up drinking and smoking, and became a vegetarian. He also inspired the creation of utopian communities for simple, self-sufficient living, where property was held in common. These "Tolstoyan" communities spread around, us the Tolstoy Farms.
Lesson 5: Beware Your Contradictions
Tolstoy's new, simpler life was not easy, he was constantly fighting with his wife. When he mentioned the idea of giving away his estate to the peasants, his wife and children were furious, and he eventually backed down. But in the early 1890s he managed, against their wishes, to waive copyright to a huge portion of his literary works, in effect sacrificing a fortune. In his last years, the world's most famous author was chopping wood with some workers or making his own boots. Given the privileged position in which Tolstoy started life, his personal transformation, however difficult to undrestand, deserves our admiration.
Lesson 6: Expand Your Social Circle
The most essential lesson to take from Tolstoy is to follow his lead and recognize that the best way to challenge our assumptions and anticipation, and develop new ways of looking at the world, is to surround ourselves with people whose views and lifestyles differ from our own. That's why he  spent so much time with laborers on the land. In Resurrection, Tolstoy pointed out that most people, whether they are wealthy businessmen, powerful politicians, or common thieves, consider their beliefs and way of life to be both admirable and ethical. "In order to keep up their view of life," he wrote, "these people instinctively keep to the circle of those people who share their views of life and their own place in it."
 If we want to question our beliefs and ideals, we need to follow the example of Tolstoy, spending time with people whose values and everyday experiences contrast with our own. Our task must be to journey beyond the perimeters of the circle.